Respect
- Ask a streetwise Mafioso how to get instant respect. Be a "stand-up" guy.
- Respect is earned. Never given. It's part of a lifestyle you live and an image you project.
- 1. Dress the Part. A well fitted Italian $1000 suit (One of the best: $4000 Brioni). $400 shoes. Period.
- 2. Keep Silent. Listen. Be discrete and mysterious. Say only what needs to be said. Less is more.
- 3. Don't lie. Say "I can't really comment," if you don't know something. Admit your shortcomings.
- 4. Never Smile. Men of caution don't grin. Show you are a very serious guy whose not easily impressed.
- 5. Confidence/Humility. Swagger. Posture. Manner. Look 'em in the eye. Never brag. Credit your crew.
- 6. Be Polite. Reciprocate respect/courtesy. Refinement. Class. Being guarded does mean being impolite.
- 7. Have a Good Memory. Remember names and something about their children.